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		<title>Shows And Stories Cure Late Winter Blues</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Looking to cure late winter blues? When it&#8217;s cold and gray out or world events feel overwhelming, I try to choose books and shows that help me unwind and feel happier. In case they might be helpful to you, too, here are a few of my favorites. Intriguing, Upbeat Mystery To Cure Late Winter Blues [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Looking to cure late winter blues? When it&#8217;s cold and gray out or world events feel overwhelming, I try to choose books and shows that help me unwind and feel happier.</strong></p>
<p><strong>In case they might be helpful to you, too, here are a few of my favorites.</strong></p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff0000;">Intriguing, Upbeat Mystery To Cure Late Winter Blues</span></h3>
<p><strong><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-3185 alignright" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Man-on-the-Inside-225x300.jpg" alt="Man on the Inside photo" width="225" height="300" />In comedy/drama <em>A Man On The Inside</em>, Ted Danson plays a retired professor who needs something new in his life. He answers an ad for a freelance private investigator to go under cover in a retirement community and solve a crime. I love the follow-the-clues aspect, the great characters (played by many engaging costars), and just plain fun. And it&#8217;s been green lit for a new season, which I can&#8217;t wait to see.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Find it on Netflix: <a href="https://www.netflix.com/title/81677257" target="_blank" rel="noopener">https://www.netflix.com/title/81677257 </a></strong></p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff0000;">Fun Non-Fiction About Dancing, Stage, And Screen</span></h3>
<p><strong>I just finished <em>The Third Gilmore Girl</em>, a memoir by Tony-award winning actress, singer, and dancer Kelly Bishop. Despite <em>Gilmore Girls</em> in the title, the book is more about Kelly&#8217;s entire life and career. It includes her early years as a dancer, her experience as one of many who co-created and starred in the original <em>A Chorus Line</em> on Broadway, and her transition to screen acting, including her role in <em>Dirty Dancing</em>. </strong></p>
<p><strong>If you have any interest in the world of the performing arts, this is a fun, engaging read. And while Kelly has many hard times, she strikes a note of joy overall in her career and life. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Learn more on Goodreads by clicking <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/207298106-the-third-gilmore-girl">here</a>. </strong></p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff0000;">Favorite Stories To Listen To</span></h3>
<p><strong><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2985" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Pride-And-Prejudic-Special-Edition-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Pride-And-Prejudic-Special-Edition-300x300.jpg 300w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Pride-And-Prejudic-Special-Edition-150x150.jpg 150w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Pride-And-Prejudic-Special-Edition.jpg 400w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />I love relistening to <em>Pride and Prejudice</em> in the winter. Revisiting Eliza Bennett, Mr. Darcy, Jane and Bingley, and all the Bennetts brings me so much joy. Narrator Shiromi Arserio&#8217;s voice is one I could listen to forever no matter the topic. This is also the one recommendation I have a bit of a role in &#8212; I wrote a foreword and afterword for the special edition. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Click <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Pride-and-Prejudice-Special-Edition/dp/B0D45XX8V8/">here</a> to listen.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Another favorite (and classic) relisten narrated by Shiromi is <em>A Little Princess</em> by Frances Hodgson Burnett. Who can forget little Sara Crewe&#8217;s trials when her father the captain dies and her charmed life at Miss Minchin’s school becomes a nightmare. But Sara is so imaginative, hopeful, and kind through it all. And the book is all around fun to listen to or reread. You can find it <a href="https://www.amazon.com/A-Little-Princess-audiobook/dp/B07DHTJHBF">here</a> (or wherever you buy audiobooks).</strong></p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff0000;">Other Ways To Brighten Your Days</span></h3>
<p><strong>Entertainment isn&#8217;t the only way to brighten or lighten up your days. I like coloring, leaving a string of holiday lights up, drinking hot cocoa or chocolate tea Sunday mornings while I read fiction for an hour, planning a movie night, and catching up with family or friends I haven&#8217;t seen in far too long.</strong></p>
<p><strong>The holiday lights remind me &#8212; </strong></p>
<p><strong>Sometimes people ask how I get so much done. Scheduling and focus help, but I leave a lot undone, too. As I noted recently on Facebook and Instagram, I didn&#8217;t get to taking my Christmas tree down until a couple days after Valentine&#8217;s Day. I haven&#8217;t sent my usual newsletter out in over a month (hopefully I will get to that soon). And laundry&#8230;well, let&#8217;s just say I spent all day Tuesday doing 5 loads and still have some left.</strong></p>
<p><strong>But I did recently release my new book <a href="https://lisalilly.com/buffy-and-the-art-of-story-three-2/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Buffy and the Art of Story Season Three Part 2: How To Write Characters The Audience Loves (Or Loves To Hate) And Plots They Can’t Put Down</a>, record an audiobook version of The <a href="https://www.audible.com/pd/The-Tower-Formerly-Known-as-Sears-and-Two-Other-Tales-of-Urban-Horror-Audiobook/B0DYKQYL4T">The Tower Formerly Known as Sears and Two Other Tales of Urban Horror</a>, and nearly finish the first draft of my new supernatural suspense novel. </strong></p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3175" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Tower-Audiobook-Square-Kobo-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Tower-Audiobook-Square-Kobo-300x300.jpg 300w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Tower-Audiobook-Square-Kobo-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Tower-Audiobook-Square-Kobo-150x150.jpg 150w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Tower-Audiobook-Square-Kobo-768x768.jpg 768w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Tower-Audiobook-Square-Kobo-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Tower-Audiobook-Square-Kobo.jpg 1632w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></p>
<p><strong>It&#8217;s all a tradeoff. And I&#8217;m learning to be okay with that. Which only took me a few decades but better late than never.</strong></p>
<p><strong>I hope you find some of these ideas fun or helpful! Feel free to comment below and share your favorites with me.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Best,</strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong><em>Lisa</em></strong></span></p>
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		<title>Book Launch The Skeptical Man</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Join me October 9 on my author Facebook Page for the book launch of the new Q.C. Davis crime novel The Skeptical Man. Peek behind the scenes of the new release and all the Q.C. Davis crime novels throughout the day. There&#8217;ll be videos, location photos, book excerpts, quotes, and, of course, the traditional all-important [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Join me October 9 on my<a href="https://www.facebook.com/LisaMLillyAuthor/"> author Facebook Page</a> for the book launch of the new Q.C. Davis crime novel The Skeptical Man. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Peek behind the scenes of the new release and all the Q.C. Davis crime novels throughout the day. There&#8217;ll be videos, location photos, book excerpts, quotes, and, of course, the traditional all-important book launch quiz. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Win and get a character named after you in the next novel!</strong></p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="size-large wp-image-3058 aligncenter" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Book-Launch-1024x576.jpg" alt="Book Launch The Skeptical Man" width="750" height="422" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Book-Launch-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Book-Launch-300x169.jpg 300w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Book-Launch-768x432.jpg 768w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Book-Launch-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Book-Launch.jpg 1920w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px" /></p>
<p><strong>Hope to see you on October 9! <a href="https://www.facebook.com/LisaMLillyAuthor/">Click here to join</a>.</strong></p>
<h3>The Skeptical Man Book Launch</h3>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Justice or illusion? Quille C. Davis risks it all to uncover deadly secrets in the world of magic.</strong></span></p>
<p><strong>In the mesmerizing world of magic and illusion, lawyer and private investigator Quille C. Davis finds herself entangled in a puzzling murder case. Her task: solve the murder of her dear friend’s husband, a renowned magician with a complicated past.</strong></p>
<p><strong>The victim, Randall Petrov, recently distanced himself from his family’s business. He devoted his energy to a noble cause: a nonprofit that brought the magic of hope to hospitalized children. But in doing so, he stirred up a hornet’s nest of trouble, uncovering corruption and fraud. </strong><strong>Additionally, Petrov conducted a daring sting operation that unmasked a fraudulent psychic who preyed upon vulnerable parents seeking solace. Suspicion falls, too, upon his own brother, set to inherit the family business.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Quille delves into the investigation, navigating not only the streets of Chicago, but a mystical European city. Her pursuit of justice comes at a great cost as she finds herself the target of deadly attempts on her life. Quille faces internal turmoil as well. Haunted by the recent resolution of her sister’s decades-old murder, Quille knows firsthand that justice does not always bring closure and healing — especially when it comes to her strained relationship with her parents.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Complicating matters is her long-distance boyfriend. Uncertainty over his return to Chicago leaves Quille torn between loyalty and the allure of an attractive and intelligent musician who aided her in a past investigation.</strong></p>
<p><strong>The Skeptical Man is a riveting mystery that takes readers through an intricate world of magic, family secrets, and personal redemption. Will Quille uncover the truth behind Randall Petrov’s murder, unearth the sinister corruption plaguing the nonprofit, and ultimately find the solace she seeks? Or will she fall prey to the same killer who ended Petrov’s life?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Get your copy today and uncover the truth behind the illusions.</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DHLQ9N98" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Kindle</a> | <a href="https://lisalilly.com/skeptical/">Paperback</a> | Large Print (Coming Soon)</strong></p>
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		<title>Wedding Toasts I&#8217;ll Never Give (Book Review)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2024 16:56:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>As someone who is happily single, I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;m not the target audience for the book Wedding Toasts I&#8217;ll Never Give by Ada Calhoun. I bought it because I like reading memoirs by authors whose worlds are different from my own. (It&#8217;s good for my fiction writing, and I just enjoy learning about other people&#8217;s lives.) [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-2970 alignright" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/IMG_4658-225x300.jpg" alt="Wedding Toasts I'll Never Give book cover" width="225" height="300" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/IMG_4658-225x300.jpg 225w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/IMG_4658-768x1024.jpg 768w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/IMG_4658-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/IMG_4658-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/IMG_4658-scaled.jpg 1920w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px" />As someone who is happily single, I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;m not the target audience for the book <span style="color: #ff0000;">Wedding Toasts I&#8217;ll Never Give <span style="color: #000000;">by Ada Calhoun.</span></span> I bought it because I like reading memoirs by authors whose worlds are different from my own. (It&#8217;s good for my fiction writing, and I just enjoy learning about other people&#8217;s lives.)</strong></p>
<p><strong>I liked the author&#8217;s willingness to share anecdotes that didn&#8217;t put her in the best light, her humor, and her openness about the challenges of staying married. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Many of the stories resonated with me, as married friends told me similar ones. The book helped me better understand some of their struggles.</strong></p>
<p><strong>But there&#8217;s next to nothing in the book that shows why anyone would want to stay married. And everything to suggest it&#8217;s a recipe for lifelong unhappiness. </strong></p>
<p><strong>The rare mentions of times the author felt good about being married left me puzzled and a bit sad. I wanted to tell her that you don&#8217;t have to endure years of an unhappy marriage just to have someone with whom you share inside jokes or a long his</strong><strong>tory. </strong></p>
<p><strong>You also don&#8217;t need to be married to live in a rambling old house rather than an apartment. Or to have one peaceful moment in the course of a decade where you feel all&#8217;s right with the world.</strong></p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff0000;">Conclusion &#8211; Wedding Toasts I&#8217;ll Never Give</span></h3>
<p><strong>In all, I expected a realistic and somewhat wry portrait of marriage, which the book delivers. But I thought the realism might include a bit more hope that it&#8217;s worth it to surmount the challenges. In the end, though, this book suggests merely not being single/being able to say you&#8217;ve been married for a long time is enough. Even if you find marriage to be almost entirely drudgery. </strong></p>
<p><strong>On the other hand, the book might be encouraging if you were terribly unhappy when you were single and so want to stay married no matter what. Or if your marriage is going through a rough patch. The author reassures you you&#8217;re not alone in your struggles. And she offers a bit of humor to help you cope.</strong></p>
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		<title>Happiness, Anxiety, and Writing: Using Your Creativity To Live A Calmer, Happier Life</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I struggled with anxiety for a long time before I saw the connection to creativity. The relationship between the two finally hit me while plotting the first book in my Awakening series. To figure out challenges for my protagonist, I kept asking What If?  What If she&#8217;s determined to go to medical school and discovers she&#8217;s [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="wp-image-1507 size-medium alignright" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Happiness_ebook-small-194x300.jpg" alt="Happiness, Anxiety, and Writing" width="194" height="300" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Happiness_ebook-small-194x300.jpg 194w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Happiness_ebook-small-663x1024.jpg 663w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Happiness_ebook-small-768x1187.jpg 768w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Happiness_ebook-small-994x1536.jpg 994w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Happiness_ebook-small-1326x2048.jpg 1326w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Happiness_ebook-small.jpg 1400w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 194px) 100vw, 194px" /><strong>I struggled with anxiety for a long time before I saw the connection to creativity. The relationship between the two finally hit me while plotting the first book in my Awakening series.</strong></p>
<p><strong>To figure out challenges for my protagonist, I kept asking <em>What If?</em> </strong></p>
<p><strong><em>What If</em> she&#8217;s determined to go to medical school and discovers she&#8217;s pregnant despite never having had sex? <em>What If </em>her parents, usually supportive, think she&#8217;s in denial about her situation? <em>What If</em> when she persists in her &#8220;story&#8221; they try to have her committed to a psych ward?</strong></p>
<p><strong>And <em>What</em> <em>If </em>someone finally believes her, but he&#8217;s from a religious group that warns that she&#8217;s about to trigger an Apocalypse? And will very likely die in the process?</strong></p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Real Life, Anxiety, and Imagination</strong></span></h2>
<p><strong>Those aren&#8217;t problems that relate to my life. But asking <em>What If </em>and coming up with the most disturbing possible answer was something I did on a regular basis.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Because in real life, a vivid imagination can send us spinning through endless negative outcomes. Often when we&#8217;re lying awake at night, trying desperately to sleep.</strong></p>
<p><strong>All of which is why I wrote <a href="https://lisalilly.com/happiness-anxiety-and-writing/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Happiness, Anxiety, and Writing</a>.</strong></p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Using Creativity To Enhance Happiness And Calm</strong></span></h2>
<p><strong><a href="https://lisalilly.com/happiness-anxiety-and-writing/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Happiness, Anxiety, and Writing</a> shares ways to use your imagination and writing skills to create a calmer, happier life.</strong></p>
<p><strong>The book includes:</strong></p>
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<li><strong>Techniques to derail anxious thoughts you otherwise repeat;</strong></li>
<li><strong>Ways to talk to yourself and others that promote calm rather than reinforce worry;</strong></li>
<li><strong>Specific, targeted exercises to direct your creative mind and imagination in a positive way;</strong></li>
<li><strong>How and when to write and rewrite the best parts of your life for greater happiness;</strong></li>
<li><strong>And more.</strong></li>
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<h2><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">A Scary Book To Write</span></strong></h2>
<p><strong>It wasn&#8217;t easy writing this book. </strong></p>
<p><strong>I included so much of my personal struggles with anxiety and depression that I felt exposed as I wrote. But I wanted to share both my actual experience and what worked for me in the hope that others might find value in it.</strong></p>
<p><strong>That&#8217;s why it made me so happy when a reviewer said:</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>I spent the entire time reading this guide nodding my head because it was as if this book was written especially for me. I thought the solutions given to changing your mindset were simple to execute but had extraordinary results.</em> </strong></p>
<p><strong>If you at times find anxiety plaguing you or interfering with your life, I hope it will help you, too.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Find Happiness, Anxiety, and Writing here:</strong></p>
<h3><a href="https://amzn.to/31g23Ha" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><strong>Kindle</strong></a><br />
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<p><strong>P.S. Happiness, Anxiety, and Writing is a Five-Star Reader&#8217;s Favorite. <a href="https://www.readersfavorite.com/book-review/happiness-anxiety-and-writing" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Read the full review here</a>.</strong></p>
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		<title>Please Join Me At Printers Row Lit Fest in Chicago June 9</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;ll be in the Chicago area on Saturday June 9, please stop and say hello at the Printers Row Lit Fest. I&#8217;ll be under the Chicago Writers Association Tent Saturday, June 9 from 10 AM to 12:30 PM. The CWA tent will be between Harrison and Polk on Dearborn Street (so around 700 S. Dearborn). [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-731" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-300x225.jpg 300w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-768x576.jpg 768w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-135x100.jpg 135w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest.jpg 1632w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />If you&#8217;ll be in the Chicago area on Saturday June 9, please stop and say hello at the Printers Row Lit Fest. I&#8217;ll be under the Chicago Writers Association Tent Saturday, June 9 from 10 AM to 12:30 PM.</p>
<p>The CWA tent will be between Harrison and Polk on Dearborn Street (so around 700 S. Dearborn).</p>
<p>The Lit Fest (formerly called the Printers Row Book Fair) is open June 9 and 10. It spans Dearborn Street from Congress Parkway to Polk, and there are usually tents along Polk and events in the Harold Washington Library too.</p>
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<p>Overall, it&#8217;s my favorite summer festival. There are tons of authors, speakers, demonstrations (including cooking demonstrations), talks, events for kids, and books books books.</p>
<p>This year due to my broken foot I&#8217;ll be managing on a combo of a wheelchair (necessary to get through the crowds without stumbling) and crutches.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;ll still be tons of fun. I&#8217;ll have paperback editions of my latest releases <a href="https://lisalilly.com/worriedman/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Worried Man</a> (Q.C. Davis No. 1) and <a href="https://lisalilly.com/the-tower/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Tower Formerly Known as Sears and Two Other Tales of Urban Horror</a>, as well as books from <a href="https://lisalilly.com/the-awakening-series/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Awakening series</a> and the <a href="https://lisalilly.com/non-fiction/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Writing As A Second Career Series</a>.</p>
<p>Hope to see you there!</p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em>Lisa</em></span></h3>
<p>P.S. Here&#8217;s the <a href="https://www.chicagowrites.org/news_and_events/join-cwa-under-the-tent-at-printers-row" target="_blank" rel="noopener">full schedule of authors under the CWA Tent</a>, and here&#8217;s the <a href="https://printersrowlitfest.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Printers Row Lit Fest website</a>.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The other day I rode an escalator to the seventh floor, literature and fiction, at the Harold Washington Public Library in Chicago and felt bliss. It was the second time in as many weeks I&#8217;d visited there. This made me happier than I can say because that&#8217;s more visits to a public library in two [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other day I rode an escalator to the seventh floor, literature and fiction, at the Harold Washington Public Library in Chicago and felt bliss. It was the second time in as many weeks I&#8217;d visited there. This made me happier than I can say because that&#8217;s more visits to a public library in two weeks than I&#8217;ve made in the entire last decade.</p>
<p>For as long as I can remember, I&#8217;ve loved libraries. At five years old, I got my pinkish orange children&#8217;s card at the Brookfield Public Library. I was so excited at the idea of this giant (as it appeared to me then) room full of books. My mom set a limit of five at a time, probably the most she figured I could carry home or possibly keep track of. It was not cheap to pay for lost library books.</p>
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<p>Back then, the Brookfield library had two levels. You walked up concrete steps outside into the main library, then down carpeted stairs to the basement children&#8217;s library. I loved the children&#8217;s librarian and talked with her every time I went in. The first time I returned books I thought I should put them back where I’d found them, so I dutifully reshelved them. Mrs. Peters explained that they needed to be checked back in. (I like to think she was pleased that I had placed them on the correct shelves.) You got your white adult card when you turned twelve. Graduating to the main library floor was both exciting and sad. I&#8217;d visited the children&#8217;s library once or twice a week all throughout grade school. In sixth grade, I&#8217;d moved on to the young adult books shelves, which were still in the basement. I suspect many of those now would be considered middle grade books, because the subject matters were fairly tame. Much of what was truly young adult literature was classified as adult literature at the time, including Judy Bloom’s novel <i>Forever</i>. (It was controversial because it&nbsp;showed an eighteen-year-old woman having sex for the first time without suffering negative consequences. Books where teenagers got pregnant and had to go away somewhere and have the baby in secret were allowed on the young adult shelves.) In the main library, I discovered my first Mary Higgins Clark novel on the paperback racks. That in itself was new to me, because all the children&#8217;s books were in hard cover.</p>
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<p>About six or seven years later, the library was torn down. A new one, all on one level and wheelchair accessible, was built. The projected cost of putting in the elevators and ramps had almost matched building anew, which is why the original library wasn&#8217;t preserved. The new one was clean and modern, but I missed the old worn carpets and the feeling of descending into an enchanted world when going down the narrow stairs to the basement. The new children&#8217;s section, where I occasionally checked out old favorites, was just another room, which was made even clearer when Mrs. Peters retired. Still, in my mid-twenties, one of the more difficult times in my life, I visited the library often. I had been working at temp and secretarial jobs, as I was a good typist, and writing fiction and playing guitar on the side. I developed a repetitive stress injury in my wrists and hands. The surgical options were not good. I stopped working and moved back in with my parents, feeling like a failure. Bouncing back to mom and dad was fairly unusual at that time, unlike now. In the evenings, I paged through career books in the library searching for something else I was qualified to do that didn&#8217;t require a lot of keyboarding and that called for a bachelors degree in Writing/English. (Eventually, I attended a graduate program to earn a paralegal certificate. That later led to my becoming a lawyer.)</p>
<p>During that same decade, I lived on and off in another near west suburb that had a beautiful old library overlooking the Des Plaines river. Its enclosed three-season porch became my favorite place to read in the summer and spring. In the winter and fall, I researched at library carrels in front of leaded glass windows overlooking the river. I discovered some new favorite authors as I wandered the stacks. Since most of the books were hardcover library editions, I pulled them based solely on title. It is there I found my first Sara Paretsky book about female private eye V.I. Warshawski. I&#8217;ve read every one since. (For why, see <a href="http://lisamlillypad.blogspot.com/2012/03/why-i-love-vi.html">Why I Love VI</a>.)</p>
<p>Right before I started law school, I moved to downtown Chicago. For four years, I worked full time while attending school at night. I had little chance to read fiction, but I visited the Harold Washington Public Library once or twice for research.&nbsp;I found it cavernous and without warmth.&nbsp;Built from 1988 through 1991 and designed by architect Thomas Beeby, the Harold Washington is the largest public library in the world. It houses over six million books plus historical collections of Chicago artifacts. Its top floor is the Winter Garden, with a skylight and lots of marble. For all that, I&#8217;ve never loved the library as a whole. Its double high ceilings and sprawling undivided floors make the number of books look skimpy, and I&#8217;ve yet to find a cozy place to read. On most floors, the lighting is harsh, and there are long library tables with wooden chairs, but no arm chairs or couches.</p>
<p>Partly because of that, even after finishing law school, I rarely went there. I worked so many hours that the few times I borrowed books, I returned them late because it was hard to find time to walk the eight blocks there and back. And I didn’t always finish the books. I actually read much faster than I had before law school, but in a good week I’d have 10-15 minutes to read at night before I went to sleep. At the same time, I suddenly could afford to buy the books I wanted. Some new lawyers at large firms drastically increase their spending on clothes or cars or buy larger homes. I bought books.</p>
<p>That trend mostly continued when I started my own law firm. Though I went on my own to have more time to write, I quickly became nearly as busy as I had been when I was employed at Sonneschein (now Dentons US LLP). I enjoyed my practice more, because I liked running my own business and having a wider variety of responsibilities. How busy I was had more ups and downs, though. Which meant that while I had a little more time to read, that time was less predictable. I might have one or two weeks when I would get home from the office by 6 p.m. each night, so I read for twenty minutes or or so after I finished my evening’s fiction writing. There were other months when I more or less lived at my office. The receptionist used to joke that she was sure I had a cot under my desk. So my visits to the public library were still few and far between.</p>
<p>Then, last spring, after spending about two years gradually slowing down my law practice, I flipped my work life so that I now focus about three-quarters of my work week on writing and one-quarter on law, with lots of what I’d call writing adjacent activities, such as reading, in my free time. (I also now actually cook and eat at home fairly often rather than eating out or at my office, which has felt very nice.) So recently it occurred to me that I had time to go to the library. I remembered the Harold Washington as rather cold, too big, and not inviting. No doubt, all those things are still true, as it has not been significantly remodeled. Yet, as I rode up the escalator for the second time in two weeks, the smell of paper and aging book covers made me feel like I had come home. The rows of stacks once again offered worlds of possibility. I&#8217;d forgotten how much I loved meandering shelves perusing different titles. Now I can try authors I&#8217;ve never read before, because my reading isn&#8217;t limited to fifteen minutes snatches in between other work. Instead, I can read uninterrupted for an hour or more sipping a cup of Earl Grey tea or a glass of Pinot Noir.</p>
<p>No doubt my next visit to the library and the next after that will seem less novel and amazing, and eventually it will be routine. And that in itself is wonderful. In this country more books than any one person could read in a lifetime are available for free. And while libraries have expanded to provide access to the Internet, ebooks, and numerous other services, those rows of books remain, for me, a huge part of what magic and joy are all about.<br />&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</p>
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		<title>The Second Mr. de Winter: What If Genders Were Reversed In Rebecca?</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>My lawyer book group (read more about the lawyer book group here) recently read Daphne Du Maurier’s classic, Rebecca. The book is a suspense/thriller about a young woman who marries a widower whose first wife was lost at sea. After the narrator marries Max de Winter, she becomes mistress of Manderley, a mansion in an [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LAON57ylAIo/Vfhj_6zK4zI/AAAAAAAAAh0/VwX2u9S4Geg/s1600/Screen%2BShot%2B2015-09-15%2Bat%2B1.30.21%2BPM.png" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" border="0" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LAON57ylAIo/Vfhj_6zK4zI/AAAAAAAAAh0/VwX2u9S4Geg/s200/Screen%2BShot%2B2015-09-15%2Bat%2B1.30.21%2BPM.png" width="135" /></a>My lawyer book group (read more about the lawyer book group <a href="http://lisamlillypad.blogspot.com/2015/03/why-do-books-we-love-or-hate-matter-so.html">here</a>) recently read Daphne Du Maurier’s classic, <i>Rebecca</i>. The book is a suspense/thriller about a young woman who marries a widower whose first wife was lost at sea. After the narrator marries Max de Winter, she becomes mistress of Manderley, a mansion in an isolated area. Roughly twenty years younger than her husband and of a different social class, she feels constantly overshadowed by her predecessor, Rebecca, and nervous around his family and staff. She is constantly told how beautiful, engaging, and personable the first Mrs. De Winter (Rebecca) was. Her husband is distant, and the narrator becomes convinced that Max never loved her but married her as a balm for his grief. The mood darkens as questions about Rebecca’s character and death emerge.</p>
<p>After discussing the book, I started &nbsp;thinking about whether the story would change were the characters’ genders reversed. I&#8217;ve tried not to include too many spoilers in my thoughts below, but if you haven&#8217;t read <i>Rebecca</i>, proceed with caution.</p>
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<li><span style="color: red;">The age difference between the narrator and de Winter </span>would be a more pivotal part of the story and would be addressed directly if Maggie de Winter, a fortyish widow, married a young male about twenty years old. As written, while a few comments are made about Max marrying a “young bride,” and the narrator’s youth combined with her social class makes her uncomfortable running Manderley, the age difference is rarely remarked upon. Further, no one questions that the narrator in <i>Rebecca</i>&nbsp;truly loves with Max de Winter. Understanding her actions at the end of the book turns on that. Readers might speculate far more about whether a young male narrator with no resources of his own married Maggie de Winter solely for her money.</li>
<li><span style="color: red;">If the first spouse were named Reginald rather than Rebecca</span>, he might never have married. We eventually learn that Max de Winter was shocked and revolted when soon after their marriage Rebecca told him of horrible things she had done and expected to continue to do. While not spelled out, her “awful” behavior is that she was sexually active. Given the desire to continue to have multiple sexual partners, a man in the 1930s would be more likely to be able to support himself or to have inherited money or property, making it less likely that he would choose to enter a relationship that is by definition monogamous. Also, it seems more likely Reginald’s sexual exploits would have been forgiven or at least tolerated even after marriage, thus avoiding the central conflict between de Winter and Spouse No. 1.&nbsp;</li>
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<li><span style="color: red;">The issue that most enrages de Winter</span>—that Rebecca might have a baby that is not his who would then inherit his estate—also would disappear for biological reasons. If Reginald had sex resulting in progeny, Maggie de Winter would know the child was not hers, nor would the child inherit from Maggie.</li>
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<li><span style="color: red;">The underlying premise of the book would fail. </span>Next to the opening line about Manderley, the most well-known aspect of <i>Rebecca</i> is that the reader never learns the narrator’s name. When she is named at all, she is the &#8220;second Mrs. De Winter.&#8221; (Rebecca at least gets a first name, as well as having the novel named after her, though we don&#8217;t know what her last name was before de Winter.) One of the most striking scenes to me is when the narrator answers her first call at Manderley and, when the caller asks for Mrs. de Winter, says in confusion that Mrs. de Winter is dead. All of that changes if a male narrator marries Maggie de Winter, whose first spouse was named Reginald. First, “de Winter” probably wasn’t Maggie’s name, as she no doubt changed hers to her husband’s when she married the first time. So Reginald’s first and last name become known, and Maggie’s original last name is unknown. Second, when Maggie married again, she almost certainly would have changed her last name to the male narrator’s. And if she didn’t, it’s highly unlikely the male narrator would change his to match hers. Even today, 70-80% of women in the U.S. take their husband’s last name on marriage, and I could not find statistics on how many men take their wives’ last names (so I’m guessing not many). In short, a book about a &#8220;second Mr. de Winter&#8221; would be far more likely to be about, say, the son of a president than the second spouse of an older, well-to-do woman.&nbsp;</li>
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<li><span style="color: red;">Finally, were the book named <i>Reginald</i> rather than <i>Rebecca</i> </span>and the protagonist male, the book might have gotten a better reception from critics. Critics dismissed <i>Rebecca</i> as a romance and of no consequence. Happily for du Maurier, readers loved it, and Alfred Hitchcock, master of suspense, made it into a movie. Published in 1938, the book is considered a classic and has never gone out of print. As I write this, out of over 20 million paperback books on Amazon, <i>Rebecca</i>’s Amazon Best Seller rank is 4,248.</li>
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		<title>Are Books Written by Women More Likely to be Labeled &#8220;Trash&#8221;?</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever heard someone say with an air of apology, “I read trash”? Or has anyone dismissed what you read that way? Once a friend referred to an early Mary Higgins Clark book as trash. If Clark has heard her work called that, I imagine she doesn’t lose sleep over it given that she’s [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever heard someone say with an air of apology, “I read trash”? Or has anyone dismissed what you read that way? Once a friend referred to an early Mary Higgins Clark book as trash. If Clark has heard her work called that, I imagine she doesn’t lose sleep over it given that she’s known as the Queen of Suspense, has sold over 100 million books in her lifetime, and receives advances of over $10 million per novel. But the comment made me wonder, what is it that makes one book or author more likely than another to be labeled trash?</p>
<p><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Wyu8lsyymOM/VZMCQWUrDOI/AAAAAAAAAfM/s1usSyyTnRM/s1600/IMG_1030.JPG" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img decoding="async" border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Wyu8lsyymOM/VZMCQWUrDOI/AAAAAAAAAfM/s1usSyyTnRM/s1600/IMG_1030.JPG" /></a>It seems like some subjects, genres, or aspects of writing should make the distinction easy to draw, but I suspect other not so obvious factors are at work. For example, last month my women’s book group read a book I normally would never have picked up. It’s a coming of age novel told by a first person narrator. The story, to the extent there is one, revolves around sexual tastes and practices the general public considers unusual. The dialogue struck me as preposterous, and the narrative includes annoying catch phrases and repetition. All my critiques makes this sounds like a book in one of those genres that’s most often labeled trash, such as erotica or romance. Fifty Shades of Grey, perhaps. But no, what I read was In One Person by John Irving. After the book was released in 2012, Time magazine called Irving a “literary legend.”</p>
<p>For those not that familiar with the two novels, Fifty Shades was initially self-published as an e-book in 2011. It is about a young woman who is a virgin. Her first sexual relationship is with a man whose proclivities include bondage and discipline. In One Person was traditionally published. Written as if it were a memoir of a man in his sixties or seventies, it focuses on the narrator’s first sexual relationship, which is with a transsexual (this is the word the author uses), as well as his many subsequent sexual experiences as he matures. I did not like either book. After the first chapter, I skimmed both. The critiques I listed above I had about both books. Yet E.L. James (the pen name of the Fifty Shades author) is generally considered a writer of trash and John Irving is lauded as a literary giant.</p>
<p>Here are my ideas about why:</p>
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<p><u>Emotional Distance or Closeness</u>: One reason I don’t like many literary novels is that, as with Irving’s book, I often feel disconnected from the characters. While I didn’t love Fifty Shades, I had no doubt how narrator Anastasia felt about her love interest, her life, her sex life, her friends, etc. I had empathy for her. In contrast, I never quite feel what Irving’s main character, whose name I’ve forgotten, feels. His sex scenes are detailed to say the least—I’ve never read or heard anything that included so many uses of words for male and female anatomy—but, to me, not compelling. They are told with a tone of irony and detached observation. Most novels I was required to read in high school and college had that type of distance between the author’s voice and the characters. Most were written using an omniscient narrator. In that style, the narrator knows all about everything, sometimes even intruding and commenting on the plot or the characters’ choices, but stays a bit removed and above it all. Current fiction tends to set the reader right in the characters’ hearts and minds. I think this has led to associating “literature” with distance and popular fiction (which for some equals “trash”) with emotional connection. Though certainly there are literary writers, such as Dorothy Allison, whose work I find almost too hard to read due to the depth of the characters’ emotions.</p>
<p><u>Guilt/Entertainment</u>: Many people feel guilty about enjoying reading. If a book is fun and they can’t put it down, they believe it must not have literary merit. On the other hand, if most people groan when they hear the title and say, “Ugh, yeah, I had to read that in school,” or if at the very least it takes effort and planning to get yourself to sit on the couch and open it, then a novel must be good, it must be literary. So a fast read like a Jonathan Kellerman or a Mary Higgins Clark is trash, and a novel that plods along where you don’t care one way or another about the characters must be literary. Again, I think this is a holdover from high school and college.</p>
<p><u>What the Book is About</u>: I don’t mean the subject of the main storyline. In One Person and Fifty Shades of Grey are both about sexual awakening and experiences. But the former also explores sociological and political questions such as how the main character’s family responds to him and his orientation, what role heredity and environment may or may not play in sexuality, and how society treated and treats people who are bisexual. In contrast, for the most part, Fifty Shades focuses on the personal relationship between Anastasia and her love interest and leaves larger questions about society untouched. This is not to say that a reader couldn’t extrapolate from Anastasia’s experiences and feelings to a larger theme, but, to me at least, that isn’t in the text of the book. (Perhaps this is why I saw Irving’s book referred to as “literary porn,” while Fifty Shades is often called “mommy porn.”) This criteria is one that, for me, often divides what I think of as pure of-the-moment entertainment versus a book that makes me keep thinking about it long after I’ve finished. But I’ve felt this way about both books that are considered literary and those that are considered genre or mainstream fiction, such as certain Stephen King novels, my favorite being The Dead Zone.</p>
<p><u>The Education Needed to Read And Understand the Book</u>: By education, I don’t mean level in school, but the breadth of knowledge a person needs to understand the book. I suspect this is a principal reason Shakespeare was considered entertainment for the masses when originally performed and is now considered literary. For most of us, enjoying Shakespeare’s plays takes a certain amount of knowledge of the times in which they were written and the changes in the language since then. That can be gained through reading an annotated text or joining literature classes or discussion groups, but it takes more effort than, say, a detective novel. So readers of Shakespeare and similar books may see themselves as smarter, more educated, and more like serious readers even if they only read a few books a year, while I tend to think of serious readers as those who love to read book after book after book.</p>
<p><u>The Gender of the Author and the Main Character</u>: Look at any overall list of best literary fiction and you’ll find it dominated by men, and white men at that. This is starting to change, so now you’ll find women writers and writers of color included in literary book lists for recent years. All the same, being male helps if you want to be considered a serious author. Something else I’ve noticed is that a coming of age book about a young woman is generally considered a genre or young adult book (think Are You There God, It’s Me Margaret, or anything else by Judy Blume if you’re my age or the Hunger Games or Divergent novels), and thus, to some people, a lesser sort of book—a sentiment with which I disagree. A coming of age book about a young man, however, is often considered literary. Think about The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn or Catcher in the Rye. There are exceptions; for instance, I found To Kill a Mockingbird on one list of literary coming of age novels (along with 9 books about boys/men). Likewise, when women write about sexual or romantic love, by and large it is considered trash—think of the view of most everyone you know about romance or “women’s” novels. When men write about sexual exploits, though, it is literary. Ask Vladimir Nabokov and John Irving.</p>
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<p><u>The Track Record of the Author</u>: This is the one that probably applies most directly to the two books I’ve been comparing. Fifty Shades of Grey began as fan fiction (fiction where the writer adopts characters of an already existing book, movie, or television show) based on the Twilight series. The author was an unknown in the fiction world. Only after she self-published it as an e-book and it became wildly popular did a traditional publisher take it on. John Irving, in contrast, had twelve novels published before In One Person, for the most part to critical acclaim. Based on his pedigree, I assumed when reading In One Person that Irving deliberately chose for stylistic reasons to have the narrator retell various anecdotes and refer to his uncle and other characters a gazillion times by nicknames such as “The Racket Man.” (Or “racquetman,” I’m not sure, as I listened rather than read and didn’t care enough about any of the characters to track it down or figure it out from context.) On the other hand, knowing the history of Fifty Shades of Grey, I assumed that when the entire contract between the narrator and her love interest was included word-for-word more than once, it was because the story initially had been told in serial fashion, so the author had repeated it for readers who hadn’t started at the beginning, then not thought to edit it out when transforming the work into one complete novel. Similarly, I ascribed catch phrases that made me cringe to inexperienced writing. In short, while I didn’t like either writing style, I concluded Irving was trying to achieve an effect that just didn’t work for me, while E.L. James’ novel needed another round or two of rewriting or editing. Accurate in either case? Maybe, maybe not.</p>
<p>As for my own writing, as in reading fiction, plot matters to me most, then character, then the writing style, but I strive for all three to be as strong as possible. And I don’t consider anything I read “trash,” just a book or style or subject that’s not for me. What about you? Do read—or write—anything you would call trash? If so, what does that mean to you?</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This year has been a good year, and I have more to be thankful for than I could put into a hundred posts. So, being a writer, I figured I&#8217;d narrow it down to books. Which still could take more than a hundred posts, so I decided to write about three books: one from childhood, one from college, one from the last few years.</p>
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<p><u>The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe</u></div>
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<div>In first grade, my teacher left school for several months to have a baby, and we had a wonderful substitute teacher. Every day she read to us from C.S. Lewis&#8217; <u>The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe</u>. It captivated me instantly with the scene where Lucy hides in a wardrobe during hide-and-seek. She plunges into the furs hanging there, putting one hand out so she doesn&#8217;t hit the back of the wardrobe. Instead, she finds herself in a forest with snow falling around her. I wasn&#8217;t sure what a wardrobe was, but from context decided it was like a closet. After that, every closet I could get to, I felt along the back for a secret door to the land of Narnia. Similarly, I didn&#8217;t know what Turkish Delight, the treat the Snow Queen gives little Edmund that only makes him long for more, was. (Okay, I still don&#8217;t, so if anyone would like to fill me in, feel free). I imagined it tasted like my favorite candy, which was Watermelon Jolly Rancher hard candy, only liquid so it could be poured out of a bottle. I loved to read, and I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;d already read, or had read to me, other books that involved magical worlds, but <u>The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe</u> is the first one that stands out in my mind.&nbsp;Lewis&#8217; vivid descriptions drew me into Narnia. And the story gave me the sense that there were amazing worlds and possibilities just a stretch of an arm away. &nbsp;</div>
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<div><u>Atlas Shrugged</u></div>
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<div>I came across Ayn Rand in a Philosophy 101 class. The textbook mentioned almost in passing a philosophy of enlightened self-interest that held a man&#8217;s proper moral goal was his own happiness. (Ironically, that&#8217;s how Rand phrased it, despite that she created one of my favorite women heroes.) My professor, when I asked to learn more, told me to read Ayn Rand&#8217;s novel <u>Atlas Shrugged</u>, and I did. On a practical level, Rand&#8217;s heroes Dagny Taggart and Hank Reardon gave me models of women and men excited and passionate about their work. Most people I knew viewed their jobs as a sort of a necessary evil, and each work week as something to be gotten through to get to the weekend. I knew few people who ran businesses or who finished college. On an emotional level, the idea that a person ought to pursue happiness changed my view of life. My mom, raised in a very poor immigrant family during the Depression, believed happiness was more likely in the next life than this one. At the time, the Catholic Church fostered that type of mindset. We were told most people needed to suffer after death in a place called Purgatory to pay for their sins. Then they could be allowed into heaven. If you suffered in life, that shortened your time in Purgatory. So my mom believed if you were too happy in life, you&#8217;d have to suffer for it later. In retrospect, I think this was her way of believing in some sort of fairness, a way to balance out that some people at least seemed to have better and happier lives than others. <u>Atlas Shrugged</u> gave me an alternative approach, one that said that achievement and happiness and success all fit together and that it was moral to want the same positive, good things in your own life that you believed were good for others.</div>
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<div><u>Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Philosophy</u></div>
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<div>I found this book while browsing in Borders one day. I love <u>Buffy</u>, and I&#8217;d never taken philosophy beyond the 101 class. This book seemed like a painless way to cover some of the ground I&#8217;d missed. But it turned out to do more than that. For one thing, I learned a lot about writing from it, particularly how ethics and a world view can make a story rich and layered without slowing it. Much as I&#8217;d liked <u>Atlas Shrugged</u>, it was as if Rand didn&#8217;t trust her readers to draw the &#8220;right&#8221; conclusions, so she&#8217;d inserted treatises within the novel. Probably good for reaching someone like me who wasn&#8217;t inclined to read her non-fiction cover-to-cover, but not a model of how I wanted to write fiction. <u>Buffy and Philosophy</u>&nbsp;peeled apart plots to show me&nbsp;how the ethics of <u>Buffy</u> creator Joss Whedon made the storylines stronger and the characters deeper without any preaching. The book also helped me understand my own world view and why Buffy spoke to me beyond just being a good show with strong characters.&nbsp;I&#8217;d long ago rejected most of&nbsp;Catholicism, though not the values I&#8217;d learned along the way. I struggled to articulate the source of my beliefs on right and wrong. The first essay in <u>Buffy and Philosophy</u>&nbsp;speaks to this, positing eudaimonism as the ethical basis of Buffy. Eudaimonism &#8220;holds that the basis of moral goodness is the fulfillment of human nature to its highest potential&#8230;.The Buffyverse consistently reflects the Platonic view that a just person is always happier than an unjust person.&#8221; (<u>See</u>&nbsp;the first essay, <u>Faith and Plato</u>, pp. 7-8.)&nbsp;The essay shows how this plays out throughout the show and in spinoff Angel, particularly through the dynamic of Buffy and Faith, initially drawn as the &#8220;good slayer&#8221; and &#8220;bad slayer.&#8221; &nbsp;</div>
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<div>So those are my three books. I&#8217;d love to hear about yours, so feel free to comment below. And Happy Day-After-Thanksgiving!</div>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; text-indent: 0in;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt;">My mom and dad had in their bedroom three large bookcases, which I thought of as my mom’s because nearly all the books were hardbacks she’d bought from book-of-the-month clubs she’d belonged to in the 1950s and 60s. The books had a slightly musty yet dry old paper and cloth smell I love to this day. Most of them had plain cloth bindings with titles that were barely visible on the sides, as the paper jackets had fallen apart and been discarded.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">My favorite book on those shelves was </span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Elegant-Witch-Robert-Neill/dp/B000PBXKEW" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">The Elegant Witch</a><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">. Set in England in the early 1600s, the writing style and sense of irony remind me of Jane Austen, but the plot and mood is suspense/mystery. Protagonist Margery, youngest sibling and misfit in her Puritan family, is sent to live with her kinsman Roger, a Justice of the Peace in the small town of Pendle. Mysterious deaths and illnesses occur often in Pendle and accusations of witchcraft are common. Margery is smart and brave, and she helps Roger with his Justice of the Peace duties and helps unravel the source of the evil in Pendle. (</span><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/413144808" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">See my full review here</a><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">.)</span></div>
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<div style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; text-indent: 0in;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt;">Another favorite was <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Emperors-Lady-F-W-Kenyon/dp/B0000CIEW0">The Emperor’s Lady</a> about the life of Empress Josephine of France. It starts when she’s a young woman embarking on an arranged marriage to a pompous young man. I was fascinated by this woman who married, divorced, established a fashionable Paris salon, married Napoleon, was crowned Empress and died without her crown. Josephine was smart and went after what she wanted. She was also unconventional, engaging in infidelities, giving her husband business and political advice, and warring with her in-laws, who spent a lot of time trying to get her set aside because she could no longer have children. The Emperor’s Lady sparked a lifelong interest in France. I was thrilled when despite living on a very tight budget, my mom and dad sent me on a week long school trip to London and Paris, though my parents hadn’t been to Europe themselves and rarely took vacations at all other than to visit family. During the trip, I visited <a href="http://www.pariscityvision.com/en/paris/surroundings/malmaison-castle">Malmaison</a>, Josephine’s country castle. <o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt;"><br /></span></p>
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<div style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; text-indent: 0in;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt;">That my mom had a number of books about women, real and fictional, who were strong and didn’t allow themselves to be boxed into the roles society dictated for them isn’t surprising, though when I was a young adult I would have thought it was. While my mom encouraged me to become educated, think for myself, and take advantage of opportunities she never had, as two smart, determined women who were certain we were right (most especially when we disagreed with each other), we often clashed. Over forty years separated my mom and me, so our frames of reference for women’s roles, religion, work, and nearly everything else differed significantly. But at my mom’s funeral, my godmother – a very great lady who recently passed away – gave me a gift. She told me she wished I’d known my mother when my mom was a young woman. Gloria said my mom had done all sorts of things that women her age were not supposed to do. Took trips to New York and California at 18 years old with just another girlfriend and no chaperones, earned her own money, bought her own car, waited more than a decade longer than her friends to get married. Talking with Gloria, I realized that the very traditional, conventional mom I thought I’d had was probably not that different from me after all. It only seemed so because we’d been born in such different times.&nbsp;</span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">If I’d thought more about what my mom kept on her bookshelves, I might have realized that sooner.</span></div>
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