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		<title>Smarter Characters Than Authors?</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>As a reader, I often wonder how much of the characters I love are based on their authors&#8217; lives. I imagine Sara Paretsky as an outspoken champion of those who struggle, just as is her character V.I. Warshawski. I wonder whether John Sandford has a lot in common with Lucas Davenport, the main character in [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a reader, I often wonder how much of the characters I love are based on their authors&#8217; lives.</p>
<p><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-569 alignleft" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/The-Worried-Man-3D-300x300.png" alt="" width="300" height="300" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/The-Worried-Man-3D-300x300.png 300w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/The-Worried-Man-3D-150x150.png 150w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/The-Worried-Man-3D-768x768.png 768w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/The-Worried-Man-3D-1024x1024.png 1024w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/The-Worried-Man-3D.png 1500w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />I imagine Sara Paretsky as an outspoken champion of those who struggle, just as is her character V.I. Warshawski. I wonder whether John Sandford has a lot in common with Lucas Davenport, the main character in his <a href="http://www.johnsandford.org/directory.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Prey novels</a>. (Maybe better if he doesn&#8217;t, depending which one you&#8217;re reading.)</p>
<p>I wish I could live in Three Pines and want to visit the town in Canada Louise Penny modeled it after.</p>
<p>If these authors are like me, they borrow here and there from real life. They probably exaggerate flaws and good qualities of their characters a little or a lot for dramatic effect.</p>
<p>Certainly the main character of my new series, Q.C. Davis, is quicker with words than I.</p>
<p>She says the things I think. Not only that, she says them now, while I think of a great response half an hour later. Or in the middle of the night when I&#8217;m still running that snarky comment someone made to me through my head.</p>
<p>Not that I do that, of course. Because that would be unhealthy.</p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-977 alignright" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Charming-Man-3D-300x300.png" alt="" width="300" height="300" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Charming-Man-3D-300x300.png 300w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Charming-Man-3D-150x150.png 150w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Charming-Man-3D-768x768.png 768w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Charming-Man-3D-1024x1024.png 1024w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Charming-Man-3D.png 1500w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />All of which leads me to the point (yes, there&#8217;s a point, sort of) of this article, which is to share a few of my favorite Q.C. Davis quotes from the second book, <a href="https://lisalilly.com/the-charming-man-q-c-davis-mystery-no-2/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Charming Man</a>.</p>
<p>Those who know me well will see a few similarities between me and Q.C., mainly that she really dislikes coffee. And she&#8217;s a lawyer, though she works at it full time and I don&#8217;t. So she&#8217;s a little more weary of lawyer jokes than I am.</p>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Hot coffee I at least understood for the warmth. Cold brew left me puzzled.</strong></span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Words matter, and which you use often determines the answers you get.</strong></span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>If some god had arranged for Marco’s thirteen-year-old son to lose his father or for me to find the man I loved dead on the eve of us moving in together, I was a fan of a random and godless Universe.</strong></span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>…if you want people to tell you things it’s good to keep everyone’s confidences.</strong></span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Everyone makes fun of lawyers. Until they need one.</strong></span></li>
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<p>I confess, the last one&#8217;s my favorite even though I don&#8217;t spend most of my time practicing law. I might put it on a T-shirt. Or a mug.</p>
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		<title>Please Join Me At Printers Row Lit Fest in Chicago June 9</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2018 16:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;ll be in the Chicago area on Saturday June 9, please stop and say hello at the Printers Row Lit Fest. I&#8217;ll be under the Chicago Writers Association Tent Saturday, June 9 from 10 AM to 12:30 PM. The CWA tent will be between Harrison and Polk on Dearborn Street (so around 700 S. Dearborn). [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-731" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-300x225.jpg 300w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-768x576.jpg 768w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-135x100.jpg 135w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest.jpg 1632w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />If you&#8217;ll be in the Chicago area on Saturday June 9, please stop and say hello at the Printers Row Lit Fest. I&#8217;ll be under the Chicago Writers Association Tent Saturday, June 9 from 10 AM to 12:30 PM.</p>
<p>The CWA tent will be between Harrison and Polk on Dearborn Street (so around 700 S. Dearborn).</p>
<p>The Lit Fest (formerly called the Printers Row Book Fair) is open June 9 and 10. It spans Dearborn Street from Congress Parkway to Polk, and there are usually tents along Polk and events in the Harold Washington Library too.</p>
<figure id="attachment_730" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-730" style="width: 300px" class="wp-caption alignright"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="wp-image-730 size-medium" src="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-Day-Before-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" srcset="https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-Day-Before-300x225.jpg 300w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-Day-Before-768x576.jpg 768w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-Day-Before-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-Day-Before-135x100.jpg 135w, https://lisalilly.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Printers-Row-Lit-Fest-Day-Before.jpg 1632w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-730" class="wp-caption-text">The tents being set up the day before</figcaption></figure>
<p>Overall, it&#8217;s my favorite summer festival. There are tons of authors, speakers, demonstrations (including cooking demonstrations), talks, events for kids, and books books books.</p>
<p>This year due to my broken foot I&#8217;ll be managing on a combo of a wheelchair (necessary to get through the crowds without stumbling) and crutches.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;ll still be tons of fun. I&#8217;ll have paperback editions of my latest releases <a href="https://lisalilly.com/worriedman/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Worried Man</a> (Q.C. Davis No. 1) and <a href="https://lisalilly.com/the-tower/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Tower Formerly Known as Sears and Two Other Tales of Urban Horror</a>, as well as books from <a href="https://lisalilly.com/the-awakening-series/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Awakening series</a> and the <a href="https://lisalilly.com/non-fiction/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Writing As A Second Career Series</a>.</p>
<p>Hope to see you there!</p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em>Lisa</em></span></h3>
<p>P.S. Here&#8217;s the <a href="https://www.chicagowrites.org/news_and_events/join-cwa-under-the-tent-at-printers-row" target="_blank" rel="noopener">full schedule of authors under the CWA Tent</a>, and here&#8217;s the <a href="https://printersrowlitfest.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Printers Row Lit Fest website</a>.</p>
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		<title>Why Do The Books We Love (Or Hate) Matter So Much To Us?</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>One of the two book groups I belong to consists of lawyers. (Yes, who knows why we set it up that way, but we did.) In the non-lawyer group, the participants express strong personal views about liking or disliking a book, a character, the writing style, the plot, etc., and usually listen with interest to [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the two book groups I belong to consists of lawyers. (Yes, who knows why we set it up that way, but we did.) In the non-lawyer group, the participants express strong personal views about liking or disliking a book, a character, the writing style, the plot, etc., and usually listen with interest to others&#8217; impressions. The lawyer-readers comment on the same aspects of the books but are a lot more apt to pound the table and insist a particular book or author is excellent or horrible. The intense debates led me to wonder why people react so strongly, and yet in such different ways, to the same books, particularly novels. In the end, novels consist of words on a page (or, these days, on a handheld device) about people who don&#8217;t exist and events that never happened, at least not in the way depicted in the fictional world. So why does how they are written and what happens in them hit people, even ones in the same profession who live in the same geographic area, in such very different ways?</p>
<p>Some of the varying reactions, I suspect, arise from differences in why people choose to read and what they hope to gain from the experience. Here are a few of the motives and goals I&#8217;ve observed:</p>
<p><u>To Decode The Text</u>: &nbsp;I have a running dispute with one of the lawyer book group participants about what is and isn&#8217;t good writing. In one novel (literary&#8211;not&nbsp;mystery or suspense), she said she reread a scene three times to figure out the identity of a character referred to only by the pronoun &#8220;she.&#8221; My book group companion felt a sense of accomplishment upon determining that &#8220;she&#8221; meant the main character&#8217;s mother. To me, it&#8217;s just plain bad writing if it takes multiple readings to know who is in the room in a particular scene. But to others, including many critics, a book that requires the reader to parse out phrases, reexamine passages, and devise for herself what actually happened on the page is more interesting and engaging than one that sweeps the reader into a clear narrative with characters that, as written and without in-depth fill-in-the-blanks by the reader, are well-developed.</p>
<p><u>To Go Along For The Ride</u>: &nbsp;I read for plot and character. This means that, for the most part, I both read and write genre fiction. My favorite books are ones that tell a compelling story and offer a significant theme or help me learn more about some part of the world or history or culture. But to get to the learning part, I first want a story and a character (or characters) who grab me on page one. This is partly because my law career involves reading convoluted case law and, often, insurance policies (yes, it&#8217;s an exciting practice), so when I read for pleasure, I don&#8217;t want to struggle. I want to escape. Suspense, thrillers, horror, mystery&#8211;all the genres I love tend to grab the reader on page one and pull her or him into the world of the story immediately. On the other hand, I tend to avoid fantasy and to a lesser extent, science fiction, because I become impatient with the time many sci fi and fantasy authors spend building the new worlds before getting to the story. Which is a bit ironic given that my <i>Awakening</i> series generally does well with science fiction readers, though it&#8217;s not strictly sci fi. But I get to the story on page one, and I did a great deal of editing with the aim of folding in the background information the reader needs without slowing the story.</p>
<p><u>To Learn Through The Book</u>: &nbsp;People loved <i>The Da Vinci Code </i>because it was a page turner, but also because, while racing through the plot, they learned a lot about aspects of Christianity and Catholicism that were unfamiliar to them. The book addressed how the role of women in the Christian movement was obscured and diminished as it became a more organized religion. (Interesting side note&#8211;the authors of <i>The Holy Blood and the Holy Grail</i>, a&nbsp;non-fiction book which the authors asserted had a central theme that T<i>he Da Vinci Code </i>drew from, sued the publisher of the novel. They were not successful.) Brown is particularly good at weaving background information into the plot without the reader feeling like she&#8217;s sitting in a lecture, despite that sometimes his main character Professor Langdon literally gives lectures. In auditoriums. I appreciate an author who can do that well. For many years, James Michener was popular in part because a reader could learn so much about history by reading his novels. I could never get through one, though, as I wanted the story to start sooner than page 100 (see above, To Go Along For The Ride).</p>
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<p><u>To Learn Because Of The Book</u>: &nbsp;When the lawyer book group read <i>The Three Musketeers</i>, the book group member I mentioned above pulled out atlases, a French dictionary, and Google to understand where exactly the events took place and additional details about the historical and geographic context. She loves books that are enhanced by outside research, and I admire her for that. I&#8217;ve become a rather lazy reader and am inclined to move forward and pick up what I can from the context of the novel without doing anything extra. If I&#8217;m particularly interested, I might research when I&#8217;m finished. For instance, I read a suspense novel by Alexandra Sokoloff, <i>The Unseen</i>,&nbsp;that incorporated certain types of ESP cards and testing. I had read a non-fiction book about that as a teenager, so I did some research on the Internet to find out how much of what was in the novel was historical fact. I also sometimes research later to find the factual underpinnings of a book for my own education as a writer. Now that I&#8217;m writing full time and practicing law only part-time, I plan to do that more often, both for fun and to analyze other authors&#8217; efforts.</p>
<p><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-eGANYs5XgAA/UhfEO0nyNgI/AAAAAAAAANM/IU-uZrcyLSU/s1600/Mysterious%2BBookshop.JPG" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-eGANYs5XgAA/UhfEO0nyNgI/AAAAAAAAANM/IU-uZrcyLSU/s1600/Mysterious%2BBookshop.JPG" height="320" width="240" /></a><u>To Find Kindred Spirits</u>: &nbsp;I recently read a scathing comment by a literary critic about readers who prefer likeable characters. The critic said it was a sad thing if a person needed to find friends in books. I disagree (no doubt because I find friends in books). There are characters I return to again and again because I admire them and enjoy their company.&nbsp;While as readers, we know the characters and events in novels aren&#8217;t &#8220;real&#8221; in the sense of being alive and breathing, if they speak to us, we feel that the author, at least, understood something about who we are and how life appears to us.&nbsp;We&#8217;ve all had times when it seems as if we&#8217;re the only person in the world who has felt a certain way or been through a difficult experience. Sometimes, through books, we can discover that at least someone else has been there, too. Also, there are times we can&#8217;t sort out our feelings, and stepping into the shoes of a character who is in the same position can help us do that. After my parents&#8217; deaths were caused by a drunk driver, I often felt too angry and overwhelmed to talk with others. Reading offered me a safe place to explore my feelings and deal with pain.</p>
<p><u>To Better Understand Others</u>: &nbsp;A book with well-developed characters&#8211;ones whose motives, feelings, and previous life experience are explored&#8211;allows the reader to step into someone else&#8217;s shoes for a little while or, more accurately, into someone else&#8217;s mind and heart. I love when I feel that, in reading, I almost become someone else temporarily, and see through that person&#8217;s eyes. I can only meet so many people in life, and most of them will never share their inmost feelings with me. In a novel, I see things from other perspectives and get glimpses into how the world looks to someone other than me. When you think about it, this is really the basis of nearly all advocacy, whether it&#8217;s legal or political or otherwise. There&#8217;s a reason politicians use anecdotes about welfare queens or Joe the Plumber&#8211;story resonates in a way that facts and figures do not.</p>
<p><u>To Be Inspired</u>: &nbsp;Both fiction and non-fiction offer a chance to live through or follow people we admire. One of my favorite fictional characters is female private eye V.I. Warshawski (for more on this, see <a href="http://lisamlillypad.blogspot.com/2012/03/why-i-love-vi.html" style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: magenta;">Why I Love V.I.</span></a>). I admire her determination, courage, and loyalty. She inspired me to leave the large firm where I worked and start my own law practice because I so enjoyed seeing how she worked for herself and ran her business. (I did not want to get hit on the head or be near death quite as often as V.I., so I opted not to become a private detective.) Reading about people and characters I admire is a big part of why I love novels, and why I&#8217;m not a fan of books that are mainly about people who struggle through the entire book and fail entirely or who are the types of people I&#8217;d avoid in real life.</p>
<p><u>To Impose Order On The Universe</u>: &nbsp;For a similar reason, I like horror, suspense, and thrillers because, usually, the protagonist prevails in the end. The victory may not be complete, but there is generally some sort of justice and a semblance of order is restored in the universe. This appeals to me precisely because I already know life is hard and terrible things happen. I can read that in the news every day. In fiction, I want there to be order and a progression toward a goal, however rocky the path. In that sense, I am very much a devotee of Ayn Rand&#8217;s view of fiction&#8211;that it should depict humans as they might be and ought to be. I want a book to have a hero.</p>
<p><u>To Feel Less Alone</u>: &nbsp;My love for heroes and order sometimes puts me at odds with those who prefer books about significantly dysfunctional people or families. What appeals to me as imposing order on a chaotic universe strikes other readers as too pollyannaish (I checked, that&#8217;s a word). In the way that someone bubbling over with cheer at five a.m. is obnoxious to the non-morning person who got up early solely to catch a flight, the resolution and order I seek, that makes me feel less adrift in the universe, can grate on those who prefer more realism in fiction. Conversely, books that leave me ready to slit my wrists can comfort someone else. Both types of book can make the reader feel less alone, but which book does that for a particular reader can vary widely.</p>
<p><u>To Explore Issues</u>: &nbsp;There&#8217;s a reason preachers often speak in parables. As I noted above, storytelling can provide an engaging vehicle for exploring social issues or advocating causes. If it&#8217;s done well, without preaching, it can change minds.&nbsp;My own views on gun control modified slightly after reading many of Dean Koontz&#8217;s books. It&#8217;s not that I thought I&#8217;d ever be in the situations that his protagonists face. But his often-used premise of the individual against the worst elements of government illustrated for me why many people fear a world where only the police and authorities can access guns, as there&#8217;s no doubt that authority can be abused and that many governments oppress people. Some of Koontz&#8217;s books are a bit heavy handed for me, and I&#8217;ll probably never become an NRA member. But his narratives provided a perspective I otherwise lacked. Likewise, being a United States city dweller, reading stories set in other parts of the U.S. and in other countries helps me see why there are such vast political divisions over many issues. It&#8217;s hard to understand a completely different political mindset while knowing next to nothing about the day-to-day life of anyone who holds it. Fiction and creative non-fiction can help remedy that.</p>
<p><u>To Escape</u>: &nbsp;I read about a study years ago that said that people who read fiction in hospital waiting rooms are less stressed and more able to cope with their reason for being there than those who read non-fiction or don&#8217;t read at all. No matter what types of novels a person reads, fiction offers an escape. It&#8217;s a chance to step away from day-to-day life and be absorbed in another place and time.</p>
<p><u>To Connect With Other People</u>: &nbsp;As my membership in two book groups shows, not only do many people love to read, they love to attend book groups. Books offer a chance to connect to one another, whether it&#8217;s over sharing a love of the same book or character or to conduct a passionate debate about the merits or demerits of a work. Throwing in a glass or two of wine and/or a good dinner adds to the fun and the ambience. Regardless of disagreements, the shared love of fiction brings people together.</p>
<p>What pulls all of these reasons&#8211;and I&#8217;m sure I missed many&#8211;together for me is that while we may read for different reasons, fiction fulfills deep human needs. No wonder we sometimes passionately defend or advocate for our book choices. </p>
<p>What about you? Why do you read, and what differences have you noticed in your likes and dislikes versus those of your fellow and sister readers?</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; text-indent: 0in;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt;">My mom and dad had in their bedroom three large bookcases, which I thought of as my mom’s because nearly all the books were hardbacks she’d bought from book-of-the-month clubs she’d belonged to in the 1950s and 60s. The books had a slightly musty yet dry old paper and cloth smell I love to this day. Most of them had plain cloth bindings with titles that were barely visible on the sides, as the paper jackets had fallen apart and been discarded.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">My favorite book on those shelves was </span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Elegant-Witch-Robert-Neill/dp/B000PBXKEW" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">The Elegant Witch</a><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">. Set in England in the early 1600s, the writing style and sense of irony remind me of Jane Austen, but the plot and mood is suspense/mystery. Protagonist Margery, youngest sibling and misfit in her Puritan family, is sent to live with her kinsman Roger, a Justice of the Peace in the small town of Pendle. Mysterious deaths and illnesses occur often in Pendle and accusations of witchcraft are common. Margery is smart and brave, and she helps Roger with his Justice of the Peace duties and helps unravel the source of the evil in Pendle. (</span><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/413144808" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">See my full review here</a><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">.)</span></div>
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<div style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; text-indent: 0in;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt;">Another favorite was <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Emperors-Lady-F-W-Kenyon/dp/B0000CIEW0">The Emperor’s Lady</a> about the life of Empress Josephine of France. It starts when she’s a young woman embarking on an arranged marriage to a pompous young man. I was fascinated by this woman who married, divorced, established a fashionable Paris salon, married Napoleon, was crowned Empress and died without her crown. Josephine was smart and went after what she wanted. She was also unconventional, engaging in infidelities, giving her husband business and political advice, and warring with her in-laws, who spent a lot of time trying to get her set aside because she could no longer have children. The Emperor’s Lady sparked a lifelong interest in France. I was thrilled when despite living on a very tight budget, my mom and dad sent me on a week long school trip to London and Paris, though my parents hadn’t been to Europe themselves and rarely took vacations at all other than to visit family. During the trip, I visited <a href="http://www.pariscityvision.com/en/paris/surroundings/malmaison-castle">Malmaison</a>, Josephine’s country castle. <o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt;"><br /></span></p>
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<div style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; text-indent: 0in;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size: 12.0pt;">That my mom had a number of books about women, real and fictional, who were strong and didn’t allow themselves to be boxed into the roles society dictated for them isn’t surprising, though when I was a young adult I would have thought it was. While my mom encouraged me to become educated, think for myself, and take advantage of opportunities she never had, as two smart, determined women who were certain we were right (most especially when we disagreed with each other), we often clashed. Over forty years separated my mom and me, so our frames of reference for women’s roles, religion, work, and nearly everything else differed significantly. But at my mom’s funeral, my godmother – a very great lady who recently passed away – gave me a gift. She told me she wished I’d known my mother when my mom was a young woman. Gloria said my mom had done all sorts of things that women her age were not supposed to do. Took trips to New York and California at 18 years old with just another girlfriend and no chaperones, earned her own money, bought her own car, waited more than a decade longer than her friends to get married. Talking with Gloria, I realized that the very traditional, conventional mom I thought I’d had was probably not that different from me after all. It only seemed so because we’d been born in such different times.&nbsp;</span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0in;">If I’d thought more about what my mom kept on her bookshelves, I might have realized that sooner.</span></div>
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